Introverts On The Web – The Virtual People

With the plethora of social networking sites, it is interesting to monitor people’s behavior on those sites. People seem to be different online from how they are in real life. Thus, it was interesting to read a study that looked into the personalities of people who use Twitter and contrasted their personality types’ prevalence on Twitter with their prevalence in real life.

For instance, they looked at the percentage of introverts on Twitter and compared it to the percentage of introverts in society at large. It came as no surprise to me at all that the study revealed that introverted personalities were over-represented on the social networking site.

As an introvert, I could relate to those statistics quite a bit.

He's an Introvert!

He's an Introvert!

I have always found it interesting how people who are socially outgoing consider mingling with people and making friends the easiest thing in the world. Actually, some even consider it a requirement for their livelihood; for without people to interact with, they would just lose their mind! To me it has always been the most frustrating and annoying of experiences.

Some people consider the experience of interacting with others to be quite tiring and they genuinely lack the interest to put on the shenanigans that are required of a social person. Those people tend be tucked away from the society and are only visible to a select number of people, and in general tend to be overlooked as oddities.

However, with the advent of the internet, they started to realize and discover something new and started coming out of their shells.

The Internet to the rescue…

Intro vs. Extro

Intro vs. Extro

The internet, since its inception and with the creation of the first BBS, proved to be the philosopher’s stone to geekdoms social awkwardness; it allowed them to mask the precious extra seconds they took to think during conversations that made them look like fools in real life.

That slight disconnect allowed them to adjust comfortably into an equal playing field with others. As innovation on the internet accelerated and we moved on from BBS’s into forums, online chatting and now into the worlds of WoW, Facebook, and the slew of other social mediums, it ceased to be a geeks only domain. Now, people of all walks of life are present on those social networks and this allowed antisocial people to blossom in real life and make real connections with others.

Understandably, some people start worrying about those who spend a huge chunk of their life online, and what some are starting to call internet addiction.

But to me there is a silver lining in this discussion that is rarely, if ever considered, when they paint all those who spend more than a certain chunk of time as internet addicts.

To those who spent their time in the pre-internet era stuck in the world of books, or locked in their garages and rooms doing their own little projects are some of the people that found the internet to be the perfect social outlet for them. Reasonably enough, while some rather go out and have a cocktail on Saturday night others find doing a raid with their guild on WoW the perfect way to unwind.

So in no way would I see that as being harmful, since to some people having a social life on the internet is not about having a virtual social life over that in real life, rather, it is having a social life or having nothing at all. That can’t be that bad!

Does everyone get the same out thing out of the internet? Is internet the Valhalla of the socially inept? Let us hear your thoughts.

Comments and Reactions

  • http://www.CatholicNotions.com Catholic Glasses

    Who are the extroverts?

  • http://blog.thoughtpick.com M.Bamieh

    you can surely find them on Facebook thats for sure, they are the ones posting new pictures every few days and constantly updating their status with their activities rather than thoughts.
    I don't really think one is better than the other when it comes to I's and E's but the fact of the matter is that i just think the internet really helps I's come out and play a lot.
    and Introverts can always have something to talk about as long as E's keep on doing what they are doing so its not all bad

  • http://www.CatholicNotions.com Catholic Glasses

    Well, they're both blind as a bat! One has a bag over her head, and the other one a lamp shade, over his. I'd be the Introvert, chasing after the Extrovert probably. Typical me. Boring person chasing after another boring person, and I got a glimpse of his shoes. Their pretty snazzy shoes, if you ask me. ;)

  • http://blog.thoughtpick.com/ Beiruta

    I think different people use the internet for so many different reasons! I think if we do a bit more research, we will find out a bunch of weird facts about who uses the internet and why. This is why I never trust the internet fully – way too much going on behind the screens we use!

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  • Katewillis123

     I’m not sure if this is the right place to put it. But I’ve been having a problem in the recent few years where I keep thinking about the past and there’s a lot of imagination involved because none of it makes sense but in a weird way it does to me. I used to believe it but now I don’t. Or I tell myself. I think that I am introverted, and that I only recently realized this. It may also be a whole other problem.

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