Thoughtpick: A unique perspective of the Web and social media...
A unique perspective of the Web and social media...

December 16, 2009

How To: Utilize Social Media for Voicing Worries & Sharing Concerns!

“Pain shared is pain lessened; joy shared is joy increased. Thus do we refute entropy”. The Callahan Chronicles

Pain!

Confusion!

Maybe misery enjoys company, maybe it doesn’t. Either way, the truth of the matter remains to be that whatever an individual maybe going through, regardless of how positive or negative it may be, being able to voice and share concerns, sorrow, anger and worries usually makes the burdens less and more bearable!

Therefore, this post is dedicated to answering the following questions: Could social media really help people in distress? Does it have the ability to reduce stress, anxiety and confusion through its different venues? Is being open and sharing personal feelings and experiences through social media positive?

Speaking from Personal Experience:

Privacy is a very highly valued element in one’s life. That is a given. Yet, sometimes, when your close friends’ advice seems to be scarce or redundant and you have different conflicting thoughts which you, yourself, are unable to resolve or handle, exposing part of yourself through a viral medium, such as social media, might actually bring positive outcomes!

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December 10, 2009

10 Ways Social Media Use Makes Cheating on Your Partner Easier!

When in a relationship, “thinking of, touching and talking with someone you are attracted to is considered emotional cheating“. By Yizhao Lang – Wikipedia

Together, let’s take the time machine back a hundred years ago, when technology seized to exist as opposed to its presence in our present days. Back then, there was a very limited window of opportunity for cheating in general; options were scarce and resources were less! With the introduction of phones and televisions, the options grew wider since now, partners became more exposed to the world outside; igniting their doubts and shaking their beliefs concerning the “right” person.

No Cheating!

No Cheating!

As we got introduced to the mobile phones and the internet, things got even more complicated: the ease of meeting and anonymously having secretive relationships grew! Many tricks of cheating developed such as adding a female’s name to a guy’s number for the partner not to be curious about who is calling, locking the mobile with a security code and so on!

Yet now, the mother of all cheating possibilities and techniques, has to be the child of Web 2.0 and social media!

10 Ways Social Media Use Facilitates Cheating:

Before I list to you these ways, allow me to assure you that this post, does not, in anyway, promote cheating or praises it! Rather, I would like to think of this post as an eye opener to help you realize what could be going on behind your back, or maybe even in front of you!

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December 8, 2009

10 Content Crimes You Should Avoid Committing!

“What is written without effort is, in general, read without pleasure.” Samuel Johnson

First and foremost, allow me to thank Chris Spooner, designer and writer, for motivating me to write this post as, what I would like to call it, a follow up to his recent post: 10 Usability Crimes You Shouldn’t Commit. I highly appreciate the unintentional inspiration!

Content is the Key by www.all-sorts.biz

Content is the Key by www.all-sorts.biz

There are millions of posts out there that provide you with tips and know-how’s for appealing content; stressing how the post should be long sometimes while, at other times, advising you to keep it short. Telling you that you need to have clear headings yet highlighting that they should not be different.

For this post, we will spice it up a bit for you! We will address the 10 content crimes you should avoid committing in efforts to answer the following questions: What kind of content has the power to drive people away from your site? What content related flaws might cause visitors to disregard the mere thought of reading your posts? What are the most annoying mistakes you can do in content writing?

10 Content Crimes You Should Avoid Committing:

1. Avoid Cluttering!

Although you might feel the need to write long posts to convey and explain a certain idea or concept, and despite having to write pages of factual content as times, make sure that your page has a clean clutter-free look!

Cluttered Text!

Cluttered Text!

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April 7, 2009

Dear Top Influencers: Don’t Recycle, Innovate!

Are the boundaries of innovation and creativity really restricted? Or are top influencers simply becoming lazy and redundant because recycling ideas is much easier than giving birth to new original ones?


Please don’t get me wrong, I do appreciate and benefit from the writings and ramblings of big names in the industry such as Kevin Rose, Seth Godin and Chris Brogan. I honestly do! But, are they REALLY the right people to follow? And tell me something: when was their last NEW idea?

As a part of my job description and my daily researching routine, I browse and surf around 30-40 websites minimum per day. Every day, I come across creative, funny, interesting, boring, dull and most annoyingly, redundant ideas. From there on, and after reading a few articles about the importance of “key influencers” in the success of new business startups or the promotion of innovative web applications and so on, I got curious: What do these influencers really know that we already don’t know? How creative are they? What do they add to our table of knowledge?

As I surfed the infamous website of one of the key influencers available online, ChrisBrogan.com, I noticed something quite interesting: Chris Brogan recycles ideas! Take this for an example: In one article, Chris talks about social media in relation to company use by using the term “life raft“. Then he talks about it in another twist, also corporate wise, using a different term but more or less the same idea. Later on, and in another post, our creative Chris writes an article entitled Social Media within Companies, which tackles more or less the same subject as the latter two! Finally, he writes an article to sum up all the ideas he has previously addressed!

And it doesn’t end there!

The redundancy of Seth Godin’s content is another example! In one of his articles, dated August 2008, that are related to profile pictures and their impact, he wrote about the impact of your profile picture, then, in a followng article, he addressed the impact of the logo picture on a company’s image and finally in April 2009, he wrote about what impression does your tiny profile picture has on your viewers, and gave us a list of best practices.

To make my point clearer, think about this: Why is there no “tag cloud” on Seth Godin’s blog? Why does our beloved Chris use a general one on his site? Are they using this technique to cover up their lack of innovative performance?

I think now you are able to see the big picture!

Have top influencers reached the dead end of their innovation? Did their creative juices run out? Do we give up now and surrender to the redundancy of what’s available because we are turning into blind followers?

Seth, Chris: I hope you do reputation management so I can see your replies on this post down here :)

Filed under: Controversial Picks — Tags: , , , , , — Beirut @ 12:11 pm

April 1, 2009

Our World in 3009: Lazy, Slow & Fat!

Let me begin this article by asking you a question? Which part of the body do you think we exercise most during our every day routine? I will take a wild guess: our fingers!

Thank you Dill Pixels of Flikr for sharing this photo.Most of us live a very hasty lifestyle with work and making a decent living being on our utmost priorities’ list. Since the introduction of Web 2.0 and social networking sites, tools and media, we are becoming more aware of how much less time we have outside the of Internet, and believe me, it is very little!

Allow me take you back in time to a life shy from the Internet and its use. Do you remember how much more time we had to practice different hobbies, spend time with family and friends and even exercise? Now, take a look of where we are and imagine where we will be in the next decade!

How is the Internet making us lazier and slower? Well, here is my answer:

  • With more and more social networking sites emerging and available at the finger tips of Internet users, more people are sadly replacing the need for deeper level face-to-face socialization with the mere presence and random followups on Facebook, the so-called “one stop shopping” venue!
  • People are seeking more excuses to be lazy: they demand less clicks, less navigation buttons and smoother flowing platforms! Therefore web designers and developers and forced to learn new ways to help facilitate the use of the Internet sites, which in turn also helps make people even more lazy!
  • Sometimes, more is less! Knowing a lot about everything seems to be the new trend, but is it the right way to go? I highly doubt that! Since the “abundance of choice both bedevils and liberates those who face it”, I think spending hours surfing the Internet about different topics is not always a solution, it could be a loud siren to a serious problem: Wondering how our day is wasted!
  • Even people who fall under the “time poor” category are slowly being drawn into the web! With the availability of many articles claiming that social media such as Twitter are tools that expedite initiating contacts and achieving sales targets, many people are wasting so much time trying to figure their way around these “tools” while giving less importance to the traditional marketing and sales methods which proved to be powerful throughout the years!
  • What about students? Don’t you think that the Internet has highly affected their lifestyle and their studying habits as well? Books are becoming more obsolete and research is becoming more limited to the resources on the web, where basically anything could be “copied and pasted” with expert laziness and relentless ease!

I am sure, if you look deeper, you can find more proofs on how heavy Internet use is promoting laziness, slowness and even excessive weight gain nowadays!


Finally, I believe that it is both natural and logical to want more benefits and ROI on the cost (effort and time) we invest into the web each day yet the question remains to be: Are we seeking more benefits or are we just being lazy cats?

I urge both the poor time and rich time users to give me your comments on this issue, unless you are too lazy to do so! :-)

P.S: Thank you ‘Dill Pixels’ of Flikr for sharing the Sumo cat photo. I hope it’s OK to use it. If not, just drop me a comment.

March 30, 2009

The Write Attitude Tips: A Snack for Bloggers!

In a virtual world wide web, where we are almost drowned in overflowing information clutters, what is the cloak-and-dagger able to drive your blog to stand out and scream: “Choose me, read me, I’m different!”

The answer comes in a form of 4 simple words: The right write attitude!

Attitudes are generally positive or negative views of a person, place, thing, or event. They could be in the form of extremities or just mellow reactions.

Whatever your attitude may be, one thing is certain: how you feel about what you’re blogging about, both affects and reflects, how intriguing the overall blog is.

Through my extensive research, I have noticed that the best tips I could gather for bloggers on the right write attitudes are:

  • Engage into real conversation with your visitors, by giving up sounding neutral, diplomatic or bland and forming honest and bold opinions.
  • Stop being anonymous and develop a sincere virtual persona.
  • Reveal your attitude in relevant titles to express what you feel and capture attention
  • Get to the the audience of one! Small groups are forming around common interests, aims, jobs, politics, hobbies, or obsessions, therefore you need to better know the communities you are blogging to on a more personal level to be able to better know which attitude will most suit them.
  • Personalize your overall approach! It’s never enough to have an attitude if it does not flow gently throughout your blog from how you greet your visitors to how you follow up on their comments and their personal blogs.
  • Remember that your blogging style reflects your attitude toward your readers; it implies a true desire for a two-way beneficial relationship.
  • If you want to amuse your audience, go beyond the norms and get into intricate details just as webzine has been able to do through its attitude.
  • Support your arguments with related links and relevant facts to give your attitude more reliability thus creating more interest and generating more responses!
  • Blog with passion! Whatever you are writing, write it with PASSION! Whether you feel outraged or extremely happy about what you’re blogging about, show it!
  • Don’t rely on words only to reveal your attitude, use visual appeal! Videos, images and graphs that are either informative, fun, annoying or all at the same time in order to help you deliver your attitude in a more subtle and more gentle manner to grasp.

So when you’re blogging, use the right write attitude to show your visitors that you will not waste their time, you will remember them, exceed their expectations and make them feel special and needed.

And remember: “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.”- Charles Swindoll.

Looking forward to your opinions and constructive criticisms :)

Filed under: Research-Based Topics — Tags: , , , , — Beirut @ 10:06 am