Social media opens the door to many topics, issues and problems which many of us are unaware of. Recently, while checking out my Facebook account, something triggered my trail of thoughts and I started wondering: How does Facebook affect the decision to get a divorce? What implications does divorce have on a Facebook user thinking of getting a divorce after adding wedding pictures and changing the relationship status to “married”?
These questions and many more got me very interested in researching more about the topic. To my surprise, I was also made aware that there are other investigated issues pertaining to divorce and Facebook. For example, divorce lawyers thrive on cases where Facebook plays an important role in building the divorce case: “Forgot to de-friend your wife on Facebook while posting vacation shots of your mistress? Her divorce lawyer will be thrilled“. One law firm, which specializes in divorce, claimed almost one in five petitions they processed cited Facebook.
Even suspicious spouses seem to have resorted to Facebook for finding evidence of flirting and even affairs which have led to divorce!
A Different Perspective:
Putting aside how Facebook could be used to build a divorce case or even discover evidence of affairs, I think Facebook also plays a hidden role in people’s decision to get a divorce, especially in the case of women. It seems to me that once your status update changes from single to married, it is never the same to go back!
This poses a problem. A very big problem if I may add. Since it seems to be more of a scandal to get a divorce these days, I think many people might actually be married and miserable or might even resort to having affairs just so they won’t face the world (on their Facebook) with the decision of divorce! Scary thought!